Best Wife Evah

On July 25, 1998 (13 years ago today,) I married Bridget Connole and my life changed forever (and for the better.)   Or, as a clock my sister got us a gift says: "West Family: Est. 1998

To celebrate, here are the Top 10 Reasons My Wife Is Better Than Yours

10) Has the best smile in the world. Period.
9)  Does the laundry (which I don't like to do) and lets me cook (which I love to do.)
8) Laughs at my stupid jokes.  Even the ones in heavy rotation.

7) Always makes me smile no matter what kind of day I've had.

6) Is a close personal friend of Alex Lifeson of Rush.

5) Is nice to everyone, even though I once heard heard her "tell off" a bank on the phone...and oooo she was nasty.
4) Is my best friend.

3) Loves being a Mom and is amazing at it.
2) Takes care of everyone else before herself.
1) Reads my blog and should, because this post is her gift.  (Jealous ladies?  Sorry, he's taken.)

Happy Anniversary, B!   I love you more than you'll ever know.

And if you were at our wedding, look below for some pictures to see how well you've aged.    I couldn't find all the pictures, so if you were there and you're not below...sorry!

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A Letter To The NFL and Government

Dear Out Of Touch Rich People Who Stage Standoffs In Public,

You don't know me. How would you? You don't ever talk to regular people like me. You just take our money. But if I could actually talk to you, I'd tell you about 2 very different but similar situations caused by your greed and poor decision making. The debt ceiling and and the NFL lockout.

On the debt ceiling: Taxpayers like me don't want to worry that the stock market will crash, pushing our already existing recession into a depression.

On the NFL strike: We WANT to support football, keeping your unimaginable cash flow coming (so you can buy another jet to duck into when we try to talk to you.).

I'm just a bystander without a lot of facts about either situation. But in my simple view, you have a chance to make a lot of people really like you. Just get off your yachts, step away from the martini bar, and think about other people. People who work for a living. People who don't get millions of dollars in bonuses, tax credits, stock options, and revenue sharing. People who, frankly, gave you your jobs. People who like to get paid on Thursday and watch football on Sunday.

I'm not taking sides, necessarily (although I do have an opinion about both.) My stance is this: Quit
grandstanding at the expense of the rest of us. Do you even understand what your actions (or inaction's) can do?

You have power. Use it wisely. The jury of public opinion will be harsh if you do the wrong thing. But you probably don't care. You'll just hide behind your pile of money eating shrimp the size of my femur and saying it's someone else's fault. Funny how we're all taught to be responsible for our own actions, but when some people get to a certain level, the lobe that seems to be disappear.

Kindly respond to my letter by making the right choice.  Thank you for reading this. You can go back to checking your stocks now.

Warmly,
A concerned citizen.

Don't Be A Donut Hole

Wanted: People who maul harmless food in public places. This horrible abuse must stop and these vicious criminals must be punished.

Be on the lookout for these people in your office or at your party.

The powdered donut puncher.  You've seen it. The dozen donuts, picked over by everyone.  There are only 2 left:  The plain (which they should ban because NO ONE eats them) and the powdered jelly...with a thumb hole punched through it.  Who does this?  If you want to see whether it's lemon or jelly filled, look through the viewing hole on the side.  Don't give it a sucking wound that makes it inedible for the one person who actually likes jelly donuts.  Fun fact: That hole is how the jelly got in there, genius.

The hummus double-dipper.  You've seen them at parties, but somehow they don't know you can see them.  They dip the carrot in the hummus, take a bite, and dip again. forgetting they are mere mortal and not invisible.
I'd rather take my chances on hummus that's been out in the sun for a few hours than eat out of this bowl that's been lip-locked by someone wearing too much lipstick, smelling like cigarettes and wine...and now chick peas and garlic.

The "Oops, I took too many chips from the bowl in my hand, so I guess I should just drop these back in" person.   I'm not talking about kids.  I'm talking about adults who (allegedly) can judge depth, volume, and space.   Here's my scientific solution: Take smaller handfuls. Eureka!  Have I figured out how to split an atom or just used a little common sense?   I'll take common sense for $1,000, Alex.

Again, these perpetrators are out there and dangerous...or at least disgusting.   Let's be vigilant and stop them before no snack is sacred. And let's skip the jury who can't find enough evidence to convict.  These are high crimes, so let justice be served...or at least an unmolested jelly donut.

It's Time To Light The Lights

The Muppet Movie remake comes out in November (see trailer here.) I hope it's good. With the track record of 70's/80's movie remake (and I don't have to list them, you know what I'm talkin' about) I don't know what to expect.

But I do know the Muppet Show was one of the best shows on TV when I was a kid. It had music, guest stars, drama, and comedy for both kids and adults (some of the comedy was for adults, but it flew safely over the kids' heads.)  And you couldn't help but sing the theme.

Without doing any research (Scout's honor: I'm only adding the links and pictures in after I write) here are some reasons off the top of my head why I loved the Muppet Show: Beaker; Pigs In Space; The French Chef; Scooter's satin tour jacket; Gonzo's horn blast at the end of the theme (different every time,) Kermit's nephew; Fozzie Bear (wakka wakka;) Animal; Zoot; the chaos of backstage; guest stars like Steve Martin, Alice Cooper, Twiggy, etc, and countless more.

And Statler and Waldorf (the guys in the balcony) were the gold standard for comedy. I think I read that the Duke brothers in Trading Places were modeled after them (urban myth or not, it makes sense.)

So bring on the Muppet Movie remake.  And if it's bad, Statler and Waldorf better let them know.  And if I could have one more wish:  Could some TV station show the old Muppet Show episodes so I could fill up my DVR with some good clean fun?   

I'm Loco For Coco

If you love documentaries, check out Conan O' Brien Can't Stop.

Remember the "Legally Prohibited From Being Funny On Television" tour Conan did after NBC dumped him from the tonight show? (Side note: If I was paid $40 million, I would be OK with "being dumped" too.) This movie chronicles how that tour was created and what it looked and felt like behind the scenes.

I won't give you a play-by play account of all the funny scenes in the movie. See it and you'll laugh. You'll see that Conan is always "on" and always laugh out loud funny. He's funny on the show, funny with his wife, funny with his staff, and funny even when he's stressed.

Like any good documentary, you'll also learn things you might not have known. You'll learn being famous can be fun, glamorous, and rewarding, but lonely, exhausting, and stressful all at the same time. You'll also learn that Conan loves his audience and is thankful for them, even though it seems at times, he doesn't quite understand the way they show their love for him.

But at least he interacts with his audience. He creates a conversation with them. He lets you behind the curtain. David Letterman doesn't do that. Jay Leno sure doesn't do that. I keep up with Conan's show through Facebook, Twitter, and the Conan app and almost never watch the show on TBS (sorry, Conan, I know that doesn't help the ratings, but I'm old and can't stay up late.) I do this because he's funny, he's honest, and he cares. At least that's what I think. See the movie and let me know if you agree.

Proud to Be An American

What's your favorite holiday?  Mine always seems to be the one we're closest to (shallow, I know.) 

So, here are 10 reasons why the 4th Of July is "my favorite holiday of all time du jour."  (The "of all time du jour" phrase is copyrighted by my friend since college Dan Vlossak...thanks Dan.)

1) Meat.  Lots of meat.

2) No dishes to wash after the meal.

3)  No stressing whether they'll like the present.

4) Wearing ridiculously loud., ugly, and ill-fitting clothes is OK...as long they look like the flag.

5) The kids can stay up late and they have all summer to recover. 

6) You can eat potato salad that's been in the sun for hours and somehow it doesn't go bad.  This is only true on 4th of July weekend.  It must be the power of the good 'ol USA.

7) It's the only time of the year Neil Diamond's "America" is actually a good song.

8) Fireworks.  (These were more fun when the older kids in the neighborhood had their own displays and sold you "bricks" and "bottle rockets" through some guy you never got to meet or know the identity of.)

9) No triptifan nap.  (But there are horrible meat sweats.)

10) Meat.  Lots of meat.  "You said meat twice."  "I like meat."

Happy 4th.  And remember, for goodness sake:  "Place on ground.  Light Fuse.  GET AWAY."